Anonymous asked: if i were to try and tell the things about my parents, but i know i shouldn't, and i dont want them to get in trouble, and im so scared to, how do i tell someone, and who do i tell?
If you have a really close friend, this is your best shot…though I don’t think it would be bad at all for your parents to get into trouble. They need to see the consequences of their actions, and that might actually help them get the help they need to get past their problems!
But when it comes to the friend, you can tell them you need to get something off your chest or that you need to talk to them about something serious.
If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, it might be wise to talk to that person, too. However, make sure this is a trustworthy person who would never use the information against you if you were to eventually break up!
Good luck, beauty!
-Rhiannon
Anonymous asked: So there's this guy, who's not really liked at school. Everyone thinks he's a loser and a nerd. For the past 1 months, he's been buying me flowers and bringing me gifts to school i thought it was sweet but i didn't like him like that but i thanked every single time i told him i really appreciated it. I'm not a mean person i promise, i just hang out with people who are kind of like that. They're the people who prank everyone, and play girls and make fun of guys who aren't "popular" they're (1)
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Anonymous asked: nice people, but only to the people they really know. So anyway every time they guy would bring something they would laugh at him and be really rude. I promise i always told them to stop. Then one of the guys, who's really close to me he's like the one that always with me like if we go anywhere he'll drive me and the rest will either join us or the car of another one of our friends. So we're pretty close. Anyway they were all telling me to tell him to leave me alone and that i don't like him(2)
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Anonymous asked: I did tell him i liked him but just as a friend and i told him we could be friends and he said okay, and me and my group of friends were going to the mall and i asked him to come with us cause we were friends. Then about 1 week later he started brining flowers and bears to school and he even wrote me a poem and i thought it was really sweet of him but, i told him he didn't need to because we're friends. Then the guy that's my really close friend told me to tell him to stop, because it's (3)
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Anonymous asked: annoying him and the rest, and they all agreed but i said i already told him but they said i have to be mean or else he won't leave me. I said no though, and there was no way i was going to hurt him like that. Then the next day the same thing happened but he got me candy, then later i saw him walking and he had a bruise on his face. I asked him what was wrong and he said as Luke who would be the same friend. I did ask him and he said he beat him up. I had a huge fight with him, and i yelled (4)
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Anonymous asked: at him. That was 3 days ago, and i've been trying to talk to the other guy but he says leave me alone or i should have known you were like the rest. I'm honestly not, i know it seems like i'm a really bad person but i promise i didn't want to hurt him and i'm not talking to Luke at all he's tried to talk to me but i always ignore him. I cried so hard last night, because his mom called me and she also said she thought i was different. I really want to fix it, because care about him as a friend(5)
Darling, if these people you are hanging around are only nice to the people they know, then they’re not nice people. They’re fake people. It sounds to me like you are hanging with the wrong group of people, and that you should be around much nicer, caring individuals. People are typically like their friends. I wouldn’t be surprised if the reason he is accusing you of being like the rest of them is that Luke told him you wanted him to do it. Now, that might not be true, it’s just a possibility.
I truly think you need a new circle of friends because these people you are around are hateful. To beat someone up like that is hateful. Very hateful. You don’t belong in the center of that kind of hate.
If you know where he lives, you could maybe go to his house and ask to talk to him. You could try writing him a letter. Make sure you don’t lead him on though!
You also need to reprimand your current friends for their behavior. It’s not okay for them to treat people like crap just because they aren’t “popular.” They need to grow up.
-Rhiannon
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend doesn't want to go to college. I've done everything i can to try and convince him but he said no. His parents said they can't convince him either, and he won't listen to anyone. He's not and idiot, he was accepted to UCLA and we were both planning to go there, but I'm still going to be a senior next year. I don't know what to do, i don't want him to throw his life away like this.
Do you have any clue as to why he doesn’t want to go? There are ways for people to be successful without going to college, but it is definitely harder without a college degree! What does he want to do with his life?
-Rhiannon
Anonymous asked: Thank you for actually taking your time to write all this just for me. It's good to know that someone actually cares i hurt myself. It may not cause me to stop, but it's defiantly a push in the right direction. This really means a lot, i haven't talked to anyone about this i just kept it bottled up inside and it feels good letting it out to someone who actually cares. Thank you so much, I'm actually going to bed with a smile on my face today. Good night <3
It’s my pleasure, darling. You can come talk to me or Kathryn anytime. We will always be willing to listen to you, and we will always do everything that we can to bring that smile to your face. You are important, and we will do anything we can do to help you stop hurting yourself so that you can get on with living your life.
-Rhiannon
Anonymous asked: I messed up big time. I was at this party my friend was holding, and it was the last day of school also our senior year. We were planning on getting drunk, really really drunk. My girlfriend was there, i had taken her with me i really do love this girl with all my heart. My friend doesn't like her, because he thinks she's holding me down. She's not holding me down, i slept with over half the schools female population, i was a player and ass hole actually. Now that I'm not there to join him (1)
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